Friendships. Should they be forever..?

Friendships. Should they be forever..?

*Watch on YouTube   A good friend of mine recently made some BIIIG changes in her life which, not surprisingly, rather rudely hauled her ass right out of it's comfort zone. No arguments from me, I stand and applaud anyone who voluntarily shifts bravely into the...
Obligation. Love it, or Hate it..?

Obligation. Love it, or Hate it..?

*Watch on YouTube   Obligation. Not a nice word, is it.. When I hear it, I habitually associate it with other ideas. Ideas that don't feel good. Like guilt, self-judgement, or dislike. And almost always connected to family. Right? Growing up, I (like most people)...
Dependency. An EMPOWERING Perspective..

Dependency. An EMPOWERING Perspective..

*Watch on YouTube   I'm all for feeling EMPOWERED.. And if you're a regular reader of my musings, that's no big surprise.. It's been my experience that one of the biggest threats to feeling empowered, is the concept of DEPENDENCY.. Yup, it's a cringe-inducing...
Is it possible that ARGUING has VALUE..?

Is it possible that ARGUING has VALUE..?

*Listen to the PODCAST or watch on YouTube   Our interpretation of something, will determine how we feel about it. I know, I say that a lot. But last week I experienced an event that really highlighted the relevance of that simple statement. Here's what...
Reconnecting with Your Ex.. Are there any Benefits..?

Reconnecting with Your Ex.. Are there any Benefits..?

*Listen to the PODCAST version or watch the YouTube version of this musing.. If you're a sensitive soul (like me), there's a good chance that you avoid your exes at any cost. Why? Because we sensitives generally have fairly emotionally charged break-ups.. You hear...